Wednesday, January 28, 2009

About Tears



Construction on our new church in Chilomoni - going great!

I can’t count how many times Rachel and I have stood breathless; dumbfounded by different experiences we’ve had here. Mountain vistas, incredible wildlife, hilarious laughter, good times with friends and strangers, watching God be God.

This blog has been an endeavor to tell our story, and it would not be complete without sharing a few of the moments when we’ve held our breath not in awe but in horror, or out of a fear that if we were to relax enough to breathe, a flood of tears would overcome us as well.

We have prayed for the sick and elderly, only to attend their funerals a few days later. In fact the woman you see Rachel chatting with in front of her home a few blog posts ago has died. A month or so ago we attended the funeral of a 2 year old girl who was diagnosed and treated for Malaria when she was actually sick with Pneumonia. I pray that we could learn from Malawians and the freedom they have in expressing their grief. The tiny casket was laid on a grass mat in the middle of the dirt road. All neighbors were present; men on one side of the road and women on the other. Mother, grandmother, and aunts were wailing loudly in grief around the body and could be heard blocks away. I was one of the few men crying (and trying to hide it) while across the street Rachel joined a chorus of women weeping openly. The entire community made the half mile walk in procession to the graveyard where the baby was buried along with her clothes, toys, and sippy cup. With no money for a headstone, a plastic tub was placed, then split open with a shovel to prevent theft.

Recently we met Elifa, a little girl who sang songs to us that she learned in school. She is dying of AIDS, the same disease that already claimed her parents’ lives. Dyson is a 2 year old boy with HIV living under the care of his grandmother. When his mother saw the test results, she disappeared.

This past Sunday I was in the government hospital visiting a few church members who were there for various reasons. The walk to the children’s ward is like something out of a horror film. A group of women weeping over the unmoving body of an infant. Always two but sometimes three sickly children squeezed into each tiny bed. Hundreds of suffering children and worried parents sharing space and air meant for far fewer. No doctors, two nurses. The adult ward is an open space packed with beds and more pain, blood, and hopelessness than should be mentioned here.

We have been learning a lot. We’ve learned that suffering is so real and so raw and so common. We’ve learned a lot about God. God is not blind to our pain, our heartache, and our suffering under the whip of slavery to sin and death. In fact his constant activity from Eden until today has been an effort to destroy suffering and bring his family back together under one roof. Back to the beauty and serenity of Eden.

Imagine the patient presence of a family member at the bedside. The caring and curative touch of a good doctor. The prayer and concern of the church. An arm around your shoulder. These are all shadows, tiny spoonfuls of the power of God that will someday soon comfort those who have suffered - and they'll be comforted for eternity! On one of the last pages of Earth’s history book, it will be written that a great trumpet blast shook the sky while the earth and the sea violently gave up their dead. Under a light and presence more blinding than the sun, the bodies of those who died in Christ were transformed in a moment to become something far greater than flesh and bone. These new temples are made of material not found on the periodic table of elements and are immune to suffering from disease, deterioration, and death. Christ’s mission is to redeem us from all of the effects of sin; spiritual and physical. Someday souls which have been born again will rejoice in bodies which have also been born again. And for all those who would choose to join in, suffering will be no more. Our blessed hope!

"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”
Revelation 21:14

Friday, January 2, 2009

Road Trips, Broken Noses, and Smiling Faces

Happy New Year! We wanted to show you, rather than just tell you how great our December was. We enjoyed incredible ministry moments, a great getaway, and even got up close and personal with some hyenas!

A Christmas party that was thrown for kids who would otherwise never experience anything like this


Rachel doing a great job painting faces at the party!



What is a Christmas party without a great meal? We fed over 500 kids the meal of a lifetime!










Rachel and I have been working with a local organization called WOFAD. It is a support group for women who are HIV+. On this day we went with several HIV+ ladies to visit the woman you see seated against her home. She had been abandoned by her family and was often so hungry she was forced to eat grass. We washed her dishes, cleaned up her house, bathed her, and cooked her a great meal.


Rachel at a Christmas party that was thrown for HIV+ women at WOFAD


The government of Canada donated a small pig farm to help fund the activities of WOFAD as they breed and sell the piglets. Here's the latest batch!


The following week we traveled 2 hours south to a small village in desperate need. With crops months from being ready, the entire village is surviving off of mangoes and termites. We spent some time laughing and praying with them, as well as checking on a well we installed a few months ago.



A few of the children from the village - the village name is Matrousa


Aisha testing the water quality of the well...she approved.

One last group picture before we left the village




We were able to get away for a few days during the holidays - this is a picture Rachel took from the top of the Zomba Plateau where we stayed for a night.


The next morning at breakfast some baboons were trying to run off with the food - they succeeded a few times. Here Aisha is watching carefully. They actually came after here more than once - Rachel went into mother bear mode and fought them off - you should have seen it!


While we were in Zomba...I broke Rachel's nose...on Christmas Day. She was laying on the bed and I playfully tossed Aisha towards here. Aisha's head + Rachel's nose =ouch! (and big trouble for me!) This picture was taken after we had it snapped back into place at the doctors...wow I feel bad...I broke my wife's nose!! She is going to be OK - it is looking nice and straight and I think I'll be out of the dog house before you know it!


After our day in Zomba we headed back up to Liwonde to check out the wildlife. Here are Aisha and I in the pool. Note to Rachel's fam: Can you believe how much Aisha looks like Rachel's baby pictures?? Wow!


Posing with a hippo skull - we saw plenty of live ones too!



Wow!



One of the many zebras we saw in Liwonde


See those dots? Those are the eyes of a spotted hyena about 20 feet away! We found then just as the sun was going down, so we actually got to watch them in daylight for a while also.

With our great friends Israel and Cinthia Esquivel leaving Liwonde



Presents on Christmas morning!







Aisha and her best friend Martha



Aisha likes to carry her baby the Malawian way!





At the top of Nyambadwe mountain overlooking Blantyre with our friends


I found my own way down



We'll write again soon!